I sat her on my pacing steed,

And nothing else saw all day long,

For sidelong would she bend, and sing

A faery's song.

La Belle Dame Sans Merci

Keats 1819

Are you a novice to BDSM? Have you read about serving a Mistress, seen photographs or videos of submissives kneeling at the feet of a Dominatrix? Did you want that submissive to be you?

Perhaps you are scared of the unknown, fearful of getting in too deep too quickly, worried about your abilities as a slave? Perhaps you don't know if you are a slave, or a submissive, or a masochist? Perhaps you dream to worship a beautiful Woman but are apprehensive because you think pain is something you have to experience?

The greatest pleasure a Dominatrix can have to take a novice submissive and show them the delights of service under her capable wing. It takes a very courageous man to cast aside society's pressures to conform to a masculine ideal. Being a slave or a submissive does not mean that you are weak, or pathetic or suffering from low self-esteem. It usually means that you have a desire or a need to lose control for a while. You want to hand over the reins to someone else, kick back and take what you are about to be subjected to. For many submissives this time is needed to balance their life and their responsibilities. The memory of your last session can be an oasis of calm and pleasure on a bad day full of stress or headache. We all need a little me time.

Trust and honesty

Trust and honesty are vital between a Mistress and her sub. As a novice you must never be tempted to embellish your experience. There is no room for bravado or machismo in my chambers. The best course of action to be as honest as possible, that way we will achieve a mutality that can only enhance our D/s relationship. In return I will be honest with you.

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Demeanour

You will address your Mistress with grace and gratitude, and the right amount of reverence. Sauntering in whilst chewing a wad of gum just makes you look like a disrespectful plonker. I don't expect fawning and hand-wringing, I just expect mutual respect and courtesy.

It is vitally important not assault your Mistress with your bodily smells or fag breath; hygiene is paramount at all times. Showers before session are compulsory. You may also shower after session if you wish.

Pain?

Oh how I despair at the numerous websites offering medieval tortures and other sadistic practices...but not much else. There is so much more to Domination.

Pain is not something that you have to experience when you see a Dominatrix. We have numerous clientele who are unable to be marked because of personal reasons, and even more who don't want to be hurt. Seeing a Dominatrix is about relinquishing control, not just about receiving pain. As well as being a Sadist I am also a Dominant. That means I enjoy to just ...dominate you...I like to control you, command you, manipulate you...have you completely at my will. Just because I can. Because you want me to. Pain sluts will of course be catered for fully as I love to show my sadistic side. For those who really don't like pain you will need to hand over control in other ways to keep my interest. There are plenty of activities that don't hurt.

Pain/Pleasure

Even the most hardened Masochist will swear if they drop a hammer on their toe. There is bad pain and there is good pain. There is a huge difference. I can introduce you to good pain. Understand how the difference between pain and pleasure is merely a physiological perception that can be cross wired at will under your Mistress' gaze.

Progression

Starting with your budding interests we will slowly, with mutual trust and honesty, journey together down your true path through perversity and pleasure.

Application form

Before you make a booking you must complete the application form. It is important that the application form is completed to my satisfaction because it proves to me that you have read this website and that you understand what sort of Professional Dominant I am. We are all different. I may not be anything like the Dominatrix you saw online or in the magazine. I need to know that your idea of Female Domination is similar to mine. I also need to know why you want to see me rather than another Pro Domme in this area, or indeed in the country. If we aren't suited I may be able to recommend someone more suitable to your needs.

My form is quite long, and extremely comprehensive, listing practically everything I am interested in. Understandably most of it may not mean anything to you. You may even know what most of it means but have no idea if you will like it or not. Don't worry. I don't expect you to know everything. All I want from you is the willingness to give most of it a try. We can discuss concerns or confusion prior to session. Don't worry, I wouldn't do some of my most extreme activities with a newbie. You're not signing your life away quite yet. I have had a number of applications from novices that basically consists of being tied up and dominated. What does that mean? Does that mean you don't know what you like, or does that mean I can do anything I want? Communicate with me. Don't risk being rejected as boring just because you have given the impression that you only want to be tied up. There is plenty of space on the form to explain your position.

Booking procedure

1. Read every page on my website.
2. Complete the form. Take care and take your time, completing all sections particulary the compulsory Supporting Application section at the end. Online Application Form
3. Wait for my reply letting you know that you may call to make a booking. Incomplete forms will be rejected. If you are unsuitable I will advise you and I may make an alternative suggestion.
4. When you receive my invitation you may call to book an appointment. Please be aware that I will never ever describe a scenario. I will also refuse to answer questions already answered on this website. Unfortunately, for genuine clients, there are far more idiots and timewasters who try to wangle a freebie wank call under the guise of information gathering.
5. You need to confirm your booking at 9am on the morning of the appointment. This is vitally important as failure to confirm will result in cancellation.

How do you know what your favourite flavour is, until you have tried them all?

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